September 25th, 2017: The Summer Gone By

Another summer has come and gone!  (How is it that they go so fast???)  The kids and I had another great summer together, full of fun times and family memories.

The first (and probably craziest) thing that Ally and I did this summer, was that in the beginning of June Ally had a follow-up MRI.  We knew she'd be getting one from her neurosurgery appointment back in January.  Once we finally got it scheduled and all the details worked out, the day finally came.  Luke was still in school, and Ben stayed overnight with Russell's parents.  Ally and I went to the hospital in the morning and checked in, then went to the imaging floor and waited for them to call us back.  (One interesting thing- during our wait, there was a man who was deaf in the waiting room with a woman and an interpreter, probably provided by the hospital.  Ally kept trying to talk with them and when I explained that they couldn't hear and talked with their hands, she was pretty fascinated.)

When we got to the room, they asked all the standard questions of both her and me, since I would be with her, mostly about having metal pieces in our body anywhere.  We got Ally into a hospital gown, and took her into the room with the machine.  She was not going to be sedated for this one, which I was glad about, but I also didn't know how she'd do with the machine either.  The got her laid down, padded her head real good and put headphones on her, which pumped Disney tunes the whole time (but doesn't come close to drowning out the noise of the machine).  They put a pillow onto her legs, and I laid tummy-down on the pillow and held her hands- which meant yes, I was inside the machine too!  I had no idea I'd be getting an MRI that day too!  They then put a device over Ally's head that had mirrors on it- so without either of us moving, she could see me and I could see her.  It was neat- I'd never seen anything like that before.  So I got to talk to her the whole time.  I think she was a bit scared at first, and tried to sit up as they were 'packing her in', and again when the noises started.  But I think once she realized it didn't hurt, she was okay.  I kept talking to her, and when the noises would start I would say, "OK, they're taking pictures now, so we've got to be real still."  The whole thing took about 20 - 30 minutes, and she did SO great!  When she was done, she got to pick out a prize from a bunch of toys they had, and she found a Minnie Mouse puzzle and latched onto that- she still loves Minnie!  I wish I could have a picture taken of us on/in the tube, but of course having a phone in with the machine is a no-no, so I just have this cute picture of her after it was over.

We went to neurosurgery for her check-up in July.  We saw the same resident we saw in January, who said the images from the MRI showed her ventricles holding steady and she's doing great!  They would not be ordering another MRI again in the near future, and we didn't have to come back for a year this time (unless she started having problems).  One thing the resident did tell us was that if we did end up in the ER due to possible shunt problems, we are to direct the staff away from CT scans and x-ray shunt series, since it exposes her to radiation, unlike the MRI (it was non-contrast).  Since her hydrocephalus is a life-long condition, the less radiation she is exposed to over time, the better.

Speaking of appointments, Ally also had her first dentist appointment this summer!  I usually don't start them at the dentist until they are about 5, but we just got dental insurance back and its a family plan, so what the heck?  We're paying for it!  However, this turned out to be an adventure I wasn't expecting.  When they did the consultation and found out Ally had shunted hydrocephalus, the hygienist said she needed to check with the dentist about whether they could do her cleaning.  She came back a few minutes later saying she needed clearance from her doctor to have her appointment.  I was dumbfounded- I had no idea this would be an issue.  I asked what doctor it had to come from, and they said the one who took care of her hydrocephalus- which meant neurosurgery.  Great...

So while Ben had his appointment (his first, I might add), I tried to get in touch with neurosurgery to get clearance for Ally's dental cleaning.  I finally got through to someone who said they would fax it over.  However, Ben finished up and it still hadn't come through.  They received it as we were leaving, but her spot was already gone.  I was so frustrated, but they said if we came back at 3 they could see her, and so we did.  So she had her first cleaning (no x-rays, she's too young) and they said she was great and she did really well.  As they started with her they said they hoped she didn't have any cavities, because if she did they wouldn't be able to treat her without more consultation with her doctors, but everything was good.  I asked about it later on the Dandy-Walker parent page, and a few parents said that their kids have to take antibiotics before going to the dentist- with the risk of cutting places in their mouth, it can lead to infections, which could make their way to the shunt.  Hopefully next summer I'll be able to get her neurosurgery appointment before her doctor's appointment to figure all of that out!

June was a busy month for all of us.  We spent about 6 days at my parents' house, visiting with my family and especially Granny who had come up from Florida, as she does every year at this time.  All 3 kids also went to VBS at the church where they attend AWANA.  I was surprised that they allowed kids Ally's age, but they did and she had a great time.  We bought the CD of the songs they sung that week and have just about worn it out in my car.  All 3 also begged for a t-shirt, so Papa and Grandma supplied the money for all of that.  Every morning when I would drop them off, I would return home and work on Ally's room.  It had been the same since we moved in and Luke was a baby- tan walls, with red, blue, green, and yellow bedding with peek-a-boo animals on it.  It was time for something different (and girly).  So Ally now has a pink and purple room (when I ordered purple paint, they mixed a gallon instead of a quart.  Lucky mistake- they sold it to me at quart price!  So she has a purple 'accent wall'.)  I painted not only her walls, but her name letters, bookshelves, and mirror trim.  We moved a dresser out and some other things around and it now looks like a little girl's room, complete with princess pop-up playhouse for tea parties!  I must REALLY love Ally, because I REALLY hate to paint.

At the end of June we took our first family vacation with just us- ever!  We stayed at the Thomas bed-and-breakfast (also known as Mom and Dad's house) and four days drove up to Springfield where we took the Metro into DC.  We went to a Nationals/Cubs game (Go Cubbies) on Monday night.  Tuesday we went to the National Zoo.  Wednesday we went to the mall to see the monuments (Luke really wanted to see the Washington Monument and the Lincoln Memorial) and went to the Spy Museum.  Thursday we went to the Natural History Museum (fav!) and a little bit of the Air & Space museum.  The kids loved riding the Metro everyday, and really enjoyed our outings.  They got a bit tiring (we walked A LOT), but thankfully we had great weather and it wasn't super hot.  Ally still takes naps, so we would put her in the stroller and lean the seat all the way back and she'd nap as we walked around and between museums.  (It was also great for carrying our stuff, because we packed our own lunch everyday along with phones and water.)  It was a lot of fun and I think the kids enjoyed it- they all said the zoo was their favorite.  Luke especially thought it was so cool to see these places that before he'd only seen on TV or in pictures.  

 With the lions (top left, lying down- get it?)

July brought with it swim lessons.  We'd been swimming all summer as we usually did, and Ally has gotten extremely brave- she will now jump into water up to her chin without holding anyone's hand!  She LOVES the water so much, and she did great in her swim lessons.  The instructor was so impressed after the first lesson with her she felt she could have moved up to the next level, which is completely without a parent, but felt she was so small she'd get lost in the shuffle so we ended up keeping her where she was.  It's hard to believe this was my last summer having to be in the pool with one of them for swim lessons!  They are growing up so fast!

In August our pool membership ran out (I go back to school in August) so we went to the water park a few times.  The kids had a blast, and there was one water slide (the purple slide) that even Ally was tall enough to ride.  The rule is you can't sit on a parent's lap- it's one at a time ONLY.  Of course, that didn't stop Ally.  Just put a life vest on her and wait for her at the bottom and she's good!  She went down over and over again.  She even got to the point where she'd try to be sneaky and cut in front of other kids close to the top!  The lifeguards would put a stop to that- smiling at her cuteness as they did so.

Ally went back to school the same day I did.  She is now in the 3s room- the Green Room.  I wasn't sure she was going to make it with her potty training, but she has done great and is now completely potty trained- she just wears a diaper at night because she hasn't quite mastered that yet and still sometimes has accidents at naptime- especially if she's REALLY tired.  She was my hardest one to potty train, but she made it!  (We didn't even do swim diapers.  I was nervous about this, but she did good.  It helped one day to show her the EMPTY water park that had closed down due to a biohazard and say to her- "See that?  They had to close the pool- because someone POOPED in the pool.  So if you have to go potty, we need to get out and go on the potty, or else they have to CLOSE the pool and we can't swim anymore."  Problem solved!)

First day of Green Room

Anyway, Ally loves school and is doing really well.  She has done very well being there without big brother Ben, who started Kindergarten this fall.  Of course she has lots of friends and (for the most part) does what she should.  The funniest thing is she has a new friend there who started in the Red Room (2s).  Ally LOVES her because she looks SO MUCH like a baby.  This girl has all the baby pudge and almost no hair, making her extremely baby-like.  Ally LOVES babies- she points them all out to me wherever we are, and wants to go talk to them, touch them, etc. (much to my- and sometimes the other Mom's- chagrin.)  She's such a little mommy!

We also started AWANA at the end of August, and Ally is now a Cubbie!  She has been so excited to go to Cubbies since Puggles ended in May.  She loves working on her Cubbie book and listening to the CD in the car.  Apparently one night I found out that during 'story time' in Cubbies Ally was called on to answer a question and basically gave the whole Gospel story- the leader kept shushing the other kids and trying to let Ally finish talking!  She is one smart and blessed little girl, and we pray that all that she is learning will take root in her heart and lead her to a strong faith in Jesus.

We are now back to 'normal'.  Everyone's in school and back to work (Ally and I have now had 7 weeks of school as of today!) and we are getting into the swing of things.  We are excited for our fall events, including our annual trip to the pumpkin patch, and Halloween (we already have costumes, and I won't give Ally's away but it is the CUTEST thing ever!).  Thanks, as always, for your interest in our girl!

Every year we do family photos.  Enjoy some photos of Ally and family courtesy of Beth Preston at Rebel Photography.  Aren't they great?

May 24th, 2017- The Last Day Update

Thought it was time for another update on our Ally girl- especially since new families from the Dandy-Walker parent facebook page keep popping up and I keep directing them here for hope and encouragement!

Fortunately, there is not a lot of medical 'stuff' to update.  Ally went for her 3 year check-up in March, and everything there looked great!  She is not having any shunt issues or development issues.  She is still wearing her orthotic inserts regularly and has adjusted to them and can wear them all day now.  (She keeps putting her shoes on the wrong feet, which is making me crazy because of her inserts- I don't want her to mess up her feet by wearing them on the wrong feet!)  We are still waiting to find out if she is going to have an MRI this summer, just for baseline data as she grows (and her ventricles grow too), but other than that we expect no other appointments or procedures!  She is a healthy, growing girl.

We've had some good things happen these last few months.  Ally got her first haircut in February (just a trim, the ends were getting scraggly).  She did really well and was so excited to be getting a haircut like the boys!  She got another one a few weeks ago and we cut off several inches so now it is at her shoulders.  I wanted it to be a little shorter for the summer.  Getting her to sit still for a longer time was challenging, but she did it!  We also dyed eggs, like we usually do at Easter.  However, this year I got the kind of dye that you use paint rollers to paint with, instead of dipping them in the dye cups.  The boys just painted each of their eggs all one color, but my Ally painted hers every color.  They turned out to be my favorites!  In May Ally completed AWANA Puggles!  She had a great year in Puggles but is SUPER excited to move up to Cubbies next year (like her big brother!)  They had an awards ceremony where she received her certificate of completion and a Puggle zipper pull.  They also sang some songs for us (always cute!).

 First haircut ever!

 I asked her to smile, but she doesn't really do that anymore when I ask for pictures...

 Puggles awards: singing songs and smiling with awards

Of course, the big news is our big girl turned THREE March 2nd.  Ally had a great day at school and brought M&M cookies (at her request) to share with her friends.  Then that evening we went to Chick-fil-a for dinner and she got her first gifts from Papa & Grandma: several books, including a Ladybug Girl book that she requests often at bedtime.

We had her birthday party the next weekend.  One really cool coincidence that facebook reminded me of was that the day of her party was the same day we brought Ally home from the hospital!  It was neat to think that we were celebrating her homecoming too.  I had decided to do an art themed party where all of the guests could do different kinds of art.  We had a painting station, coloring, playdoh, bubble art, and beading necklaces.  I also hired a youth from our church to do face painting.  We had ice cream and plain cupcakes, that the guests could decorate with various toppings (sprinkles, gummy bears, crushed oreos, marshmallows, chocolate chips, etc.).  We had a LOT of people there and had a great time!  Our Ally girl is so very loved by our family and friends, and it showed!  We are so thankful to everyone for coming and celebrating with us, and especially for all of her (many, many) gifts!

 She chose a bumblebee for her face painting

 Ally (and most of the other kids) enjoyed painting the most

One of my favorite pictures of her ever.  Happy 3rd birthday baby girl!

Ally is also working very hard on potty training.  She is doing really well, and wearing underwear everyday.  She still has accidents sometimes, which is making me crazy- she'll have several really good days and then have an accident or two a for a few days.  Whoever said boys were harder to potty train has never met my Ally girl!  She has been going in the potty off and on since Halloween and I still wouldn't say she is fully trained yet.  However, when that day comes (and I think we're getting close!) we will be taking a family trip to Chuck-E-Cheese, as is tradition in our household once diapers are officially gone.

This week is my last week of school, (today is my last student day) which means its also Ben and Ally's last week too.  This is Ally's last week in the Red Room- when we return to school in the fall she will move up to the 3s class, the Green Room (as long as she is fully potty trained- she really wants to go to the Green Room so that is helping to motivate her too!).  We are looking forward to a full and fun summer.  We have 2 VBS weeks to attend as well as the usual swim lessons and trip to my parents to visit with Granny visiting from Florida.  We are also doing a mini-vacation to do some things in DC as a family, and Ally will be doing a dance camp one week!  We are hoping to put her in dance starting in the fall so we are going to see how she likes it with this day camp experience.  We'll update again at the end of the summer with pictures and stories of our summer adventures.  Until then, thank you for your continued interest in our girl!

Do you recognize the doll?  It's made from the cute sleeper we brought her home from the hospital in!  Look how big she is now!

January 10th, 2017- The New Year Update

Happy New Year!  There's nothing like a few snow days to get caught up on blogging, especially since we've had so much happening since the last post.

First was our annual trip to the pumpkin patch.  This was our 7th year going to the same farm and we always have a great time.  After playing in the corn crib and on the mini-tractors, we took a hayride up to the corn and pumpkin cannons and the entrance to the corn maze.  After taking a few minutes to shoot the cannons we traipsed through the maze (it's not a big or complicated one, perfect for young kids) and then came out to the pumpkin patch and other activities.  There is a tractor-pulled barrel train, slides, and a swing.  The kids had a blast running between all of the various activities (and with it being as cold and windy as it was that day, we didn't have too many other kids around to contend with!).  After choosing our pumpkins, we rode the hayride back to the main area.  It is always a lot of fun and we look forward to it every year.

Next was Halloween.  We always take our kids to a consignment store first to see if there are any costumes in their size that they like.  This year they all found one!  Unfortunately the strawberry that Ally wanted was a size smaller than what she was wearing.  She insisted, and I bought it, hoping that she would still be able to fit in it on Halloween, which was still weeks away.  

Halloween came and luckily the costume fit!  Ben & Ally had their Halloween party at school the Friday before.  They had a great time trunk-or-treating and hanging out with Mommy, Daddy, & Auntie afterwards eating snacks and treats and taking a hayride.  (One of Ally's teachers told me that my kids had the best costumes of all the kids in the school- off the record, of course!)

On Halloween we had a quick dinner of spaghetti and then headed over to Papa & Grandma's house, who live in a much better neighborhood for trick-or-treating than we do.  We went through the whole neighborhood, and the kids had a blast and collected a LOT of candy (so much so that after awhile I had to carry Ally's bag because she could barely walk with it, so she would collect her candy at the door then bring it to me to put in her bag).  We had to tell Luke a number of times to slow down and wait for his younger siblings before ringing the bell, and we of course also had to remind them to take turns ringing the bell when arguments broke out.  But in general they had a great time, were told a number of times how cute they were, and afterwards ate as much candy as they could hold.

Ally refused to wear her hood with the green part of the strawberry on top.  She was protected by a dinosaur and ninja!

Early in November Ally finally got to see her former physical therapist about her muscle tone and her orthotics.  The therapist said that although her tone had improved, she would still need inserts and would probably need them her whole life.  (We were also very fortunate because Ally does point her toes inward as she walks a bit, and it will sometimes cause her to fall if walking fast or running.  The therapist noticed this and showed a modification we can make to help.  It is basically two straps wrapped around her waist, down and around her legs, and attached to her shoes to pull her toes outward.  She HATED it.  And can you imagine changing diapers or potty training in something like that?)  So we headed back to the orthotics place for her to be measured.  When they came in we then had to buy some bigger shoes to accommodate the inserts- so now she is in a size 9!  These inserts, we were told, are much harder/firmer than her other ones, so we had to break them in and have her wear them for only a few hours at a time at first, but she's doing well with them now.  So unfortunately we were not able to drop orthotics altogether, but moving down to inserts is a huge deal and we are very thankful!

 Thanksgiving was a great time with my family, and then of course we started shopping on black Friday for deals for Christmas!  Our Christmas festivities were delayed at home for a week or two because we were put out of our house while our bathroom was being remodeled.  We stayed with Russell's parents during that time because it is our only bathroom and was taken down to the studs and put back together again.  But after it was completed we were able to decorate and put up the tree.

This picture was taken during the Christmas parade.  We got to march with the Busy Beats, her music group that she did for about a year (that's why she's holding the musical instruments).  It was fun (and good exercise!).

Of course, at the kids' school there was no delaying Christmas preparations.  On the Friday before Christmas break began, the preschool had their Christmas party, complete with performances and lovely handmade artwork.  Last year I was unable to make it so I was so glad that this year I got to be there to watch both Ben & Ally perform and then enjoy some treats together.  

Singing Jingle Bells!

Christmas was wonderful, of course.  She had a great time going to the mall to visit Santa and take a train ride with her brothers.  Santa brought Ally a whole art set full of crayons, markers, & colored pencils, along with a few coloring books.  She also got a singing Ariel mermaid doll that she can take in the tub with her.  Being a Minnie Mouse fan, she got a number of Minnie items from family members, including clothes, a nightlight, doll, v-tech purse with number and letter learning, and a doll house with figurines.  She is definitely one loved (& spoiled!) little girl, and was obviously very good this year.

Our Christmas card this year!  So perfect.

Riding the train.  Apparently she screeched through a lot of the ride!

Christmas Eve

The day after new year's Ally gave us a scare.  We were all off from school/work that day except for Luke.  Russell and I had taken the younger two to McDonald's for lunch, and the whole time she was acting funny- complaining about her head hurting and not wanting to eat, laying on us, etc.  She did get up to play in the play place a bit, but not with her usual gusto.  Between the two of us Russell is the paranoid one, but even I starting getting scared that something was wrong with her shunt.

Fortunately the next morning she seemed to be acting fine, and she had a follow-up with neurosurgery.  I told the resident we were seeing (same one we saw last time) about how she was acting and she said it sounded like nothing to be concerned about since she was back to normal, but always to keep a close eye on her and contact them or bring her in if she had an episode that did not go away.  She will probably also have another MRI this summer.  This one, however, is different, because it is much faster (so she won't need to be put to sleep- yay!) and doesn't expose her to radiation (this type of MRI has a special name but I forget what it was called).  The resident said that they wanted to do one just to have ventricle size- as Ally grows her head will grow too and they want to have accurate ventricle sizes if she does have an issue to compare them to.  So we have that to look forward to in 6 months or so.

Other than an ear infection over new year's weekend, Ally's health has been great.  She's had no issues and has done really well at school and home.  We are so proud of her, and continually amazed by God's grace to her and our family when so many other Dandy-Walker warriors are affected so much more so than she is.  

We look forward in the upcoming weeks to celebrating Ally's 3rd birthday!  We are also really hoping that with that will come the shedding of diapers from our family- Ally's first time using the potty was on Halloween and she has used it a number of times since then.  She has picked out her own underwear (and received some for Christmas as well) and tried to wear them once, but we went through three pairs in one day!  (Though she was so proud an came out telling her brothers, "I'm wearing big girl underwear!")  She is very sporadic about when she will use the potty, but she obviously understands what to do so hopefully it is only a matter of time until she decides to use it all the time!  She keeps talking about moving up into the green room (the 3s room) at school but she can't move up until she is out of diapers, so we'll see what happens in the coming months.

Thanks, as always, for your support & interest in our Ally girl.  We hope that she, and you, have a wonderful 2017!

October 19th, 2016- The Milestones and Marvels

Wow, it's been so long since I've posted- I hope I don't forget anything!!

When our story last ended it was May.  In the later part of May Ally and I headed to northern Virginia to attend the 5th and final Carter's Run for Dandy Walker.  Ally and I drove to my parents home Saturday, and then drove to Ashburn after dinner and stayed overnight in a hotel.  We got up early the next morning to head to the run.  Once again, we did not run (or walk), but we laughed and talked with old friends and met new ones at the dandy walker tent.  We had a great time, and after the run was over we went to the  show with The Great Zucchini- and Ally got to help him on stage!  She loved it and had a great time.  We are sad that we won't get to see our dandy family every year at this event, but hopefully we'll be able to be regular attenders at some of the major league baseball games for dandy-walker alliance day (we didn't get to go again this year).  So far, they have had games at the Nationals, Orioles, and Pirates, and since we love baseball we hope to make these games a part of our schedule each year they are held.

 

The summer was great!  We got to go on our first family vacation in YEARS thanks to my parents, who took us and my brother's family to Ocean City, MD in June.  We grew up going there and it was the first time at the ocean for both Ally and Ben.  We stayed at a house on the bayside of the city, which had a great little beach area with very calm water, which the younger kids loved, as well as a pool.  We ventured across the way to the ocean side for one day, but the water was pretty rough for the youngest kids.  Ben was sent underwater several times, and Ally was so scared of the waves she wouldn't go in the water hardly at all!  (I always thought she was fearless, so the ocean is now her nemesis!)  We had a great time with family doing other beach activities, including the amusement park and mini-golf.  My brother and I took the kids mini-golfing, and while he took the 3 oldest I took Ben and Ally.  Have you ever tried to mini-golf with a 4 and 2 year old?  It is like herding cats.  Trying to get them to wait their turn, hit the ball, make it go the right way...ugh!  And at one point- Ally fell in some water!  She slid right down the short embankment into about a foot of water while I was trying to help Ben with his turn and my back was turned.  She was soaked from shoes up to about halfway up her shirt- and we were only on hole 4!  My brother reached in and fished her out, and boy she was upset!  She wanted to go home and change, but we had paid for golf and we were going to finish, so she just had to suffer through it.  Oy vey!

Fun at the Trimper Rides!

While we were there we had beach pictures taken, and loved how they turned out.  Ally's picture is absolutely beautiful!

The rest of the summer was great.  We did swim lessons at a local pool which all of my kids loved, especially Ally.  She is getting really confident in the water.  It's hard to believe that next summer is the last time I have to be in the water for lessons with her.

Of course, summer is never complete without a visit from Granny up from Florida.  She came to stay with my parents in June for a week so we went to visit as well.  She loves seeing all the great grandkids!

We tried to stay busy during the summer.  We went to library storytime, various parks and playgrounds, and occasional other fun events around town (like decorating cookies at AC Moore!).  I really treasure my summers with the kids.

Wading in a local creek

Another funny story- Ally learned to climb out of her crib!  Neither one of the 2 boys ever did that- leave it to our adventurous Ally!  When she finally took a pretty good fall climbing out we took off the front and she now has a daybed.  She is so proud of her big girl bed, and she does great in it!

In August, Ben, Ally, and I went back to school.  Ally went back to the Red Room (2s room) at her preschool- now full time 5 days a week.  She loves her friends and teachers there- and so do I!  She still loves painting and all of the crafts and coloring as well.  Recently she took the ASQ assessment to determine developmental progress of preschoolers for their age.  At the conference with her teacher, no surprise- Ally is on track with no concerns in EVERY CATEGORY (communication, fine motor, social, etc).  Recently her teachers told me that Ally can recognize not only her own name, but the names of every child in her class.  On a chart she was pointing to names and saying, "That's Brantley.  That's M.E.  That's Elena..."  They thought maybe it was a fluke, but when they mixed the names up she could still do it!  Our Ally girl is doing so well and we are so proud of her!

First day of preschool!  Notice her hairclip!

Other exciting news comes from her doctors.  In July Ally had an appointment with neurosurgery.  It was just a follow-up, and everything looked great there and she doesn't need to go back for 6 months.  In September she had her 2 and a half year checkup.  Everything at this appointment was great, and her pediatrician even told us that her muscle tone had improved- so much so that she may not even need her orthotics anymore!  I have been concerned that she may be getting close to outgrowing them (she has not complained about them being uncomfortable, but it is getting a little more difficult to get them on her in the mornings), so we asked about it, and the answer was more than I was hoping for!  We contacted Easter Seals and are hoping to have her physical therapist come over soon to have a look and give the final word!  Fingers crossed!

 

Other fun milestones- in September Ally started Awana Puggles.  She often cries when being dropped off (unusual for her) but she loves Puggles!  The second picture shows 2 of Ally's newest fads.  She loves having a ponytail, and actually asks for one and will sit and let me do it!  (And her hair is finally long enough!)  She also LOVES her kitty shoes, which she's wearing in the second picture- without orthotics for the first time (we decided to try it out)!  She often wears the kitty shoes to bed and ALL night long since she can't wear them to school or to play.

The rest of the year should be full of lots of fun events- our annual trip to the pumpkin patch, Halloween, Thanksgiving, Christmas, and some other miscellaneous events as well.  We hope to update again sometime after the new year- unless something unexpected comes up.  We continue to hope and pray for good health and a clear, functioning shunt.  Until then, we will continue to watch our girl thrive and grow and light up our lives as only she can!

May 12th, 2016- The 2 Year Old

So I was supposed to write this post over spring break back at the end of March.  It was the perfect time- just a few weeks after Ally's birthday, and I would have a whole week off to get it (and a list of other things!) done.

Well, everything got checked off that list- except the blog post.  I guess it was writers block.  I kept thinking and thinking about it- especially when I would post on the dandy-walker parent page for a new parent to check out the blog, or when my mom said "I checked the blog- you haven't updated it in a while."   So here it is- finally!

March 2nd was Ally's 2nd birthday!  Her birthday was on a Wednesday this year so the actual date was fairly uneventful- we went to school and work and she went to Russell's parents house, and that night the boys had AWANA and Russell was home with Ally and put her to bed.  So I honestly only got to see her for a grand total of maybe 3 hours.

The day after Ally's birthday was her 2 year check-up.  Everything was fine, the doctor was very impressed with how well she's doing.  She is a bit low on the weight chart (3%) so her pediatrician wanted her to start some pediasure.  Ally often refuses dinner and sometimes other meals too.  She's definitely not starving, but she also has a liking for snack foods and junk foods.  She will try to get them at all costs!  (One time I had gone grocery shopping and bought a container of cookies from the bakery.  As we were unloading everything she managed to find the container and get her hand through and grab a small handful of cookie and put it into her mouth before we could snatch the package away!  Silly girl!)  

The pediatrician recommended that we give her pediasure in the evenings if she didn't eat a good dinner.  We tried both the vanilla and chocolate pediasure- and she will NOT drink it!  She doesn't like it at all.  There is the strawberry one, but I'm afraid to buy it because it is so expensive and I'm afraid she won't like it either.  So far, pediasure has been a bust!

Ally's birthday party was that Saturday.  All of her grandparents came (except my Dad- tax season) and my brother and sister-in-law and 3 nephews, along with a few friends from church.  When planning her party I was having a rough time- with her birthday basically being in winter and the weather being very unreliable, outdoor parties are not going to work.  So I had to figure out an indoor party that wasn't going to cost me an arm and a leg (our house, being fairly small, doesn't really work well for parties with more than one or two families either).  Our mall has an indoor playground facility/business that does parties, but I didn't like the packages and they were more than I wanted to spend for a 2 year old's birthday party anyway.

So I came up with a great idea- what if I paid for everyone to play for an hour, and then we went into the (abandoned) food court for cake and juice?  I wanted to make sure this would be okay with the mall (I didn't want to get kicked out in the middle of her party!) so I called the mall offices.  I explained what I wanted to do- and assured them I was not bringing lots of food, just cake and drinks (there are other restaurants in other parts of the mall so I didn't want them thinking I was stealing business from them).  The woman I spoke too (didn't get her name- not smart) said "Oh, that would be fine, no problem, you do that and have a good time!"  Problem solved.

Ally's party was Minnie Mouse themed.  (She had a cute dress a friend lent to us and everything!)  I made bows as party favors- but unfortunately they ended up getting thrown out with the trash while cleaning up and we couldn't find them.  :-(  The day of the party I showed up early to bring everything in and set up the table.  Since the food court no longer had any restaurants in it, the mall had taken most of the tables and spread them out throughout the mall.  I retrieved 3 of them and put 6 together to make a long table, and put a plastic tablecloth over the middle of them.  That was it- no balloons, no other decorations.

When everyone showed up, we went to play in the playground.  The kids were having a great time, and so was I- until my mother-in-law came over with a security guard.  He asked me about the tables and why we had done that.  I told him about the party and that I had called the mall office to ask for permission and they had said it was fine.  We were not blocking the flow of traffic or any stores.  He said this was very unusual- who was going to clean this up?  Who did I speak to?  Did I tell them when I was doing this?  He would have to go and make some calls.  I was so upset and told him I would clean up the area and put the tables back, there would be nothing to worry about.  He went off, and the janitor came over to us.  She was an older lady, and at first I thought maybe she was the one who had reported us because she was afraid she would be stuck cleaning up- but she was on our side!  She told us "Don't you worry about anything honey- I will clean up for you."  I told her oh no ma'am she would not but thank you.  My mom had been speaking with her and told me her name was JoAnn.  After a few minutes the security guard came back and told me they would allow us to stay but that this was 'highly unusual."

As we did the cake, I saw JoAnn hanging around the outskirts of where we were, sweeping up.  When we started presents she came over to me and asked "Who's the birthday child?"  I pointed out Ally and she walked over and handed her two $5 bills.  I had been so unnerved by the whole situation that I had been on the brink of tears- and that act of kindness took me over the edge.  I just hugged and thanked her and cried.  To an 80 year old janitor with a disabled husband, $10 is a lot of money.  I will never forget that as long as I live.  (The money went straight to her savings account, by the way.)

As for the rest of the party, it went great.  All of the kids, including Ally, had a great time playing and then eating cake and opening presents.  Ally got some very cute things, including beach items (swimsuit, towel, cover-up, hat, and sunglasses), books, a tea set, a Minnie Mouse potty, play food for her play kitchen that she got at Christmas, musical instruments, a talking Care Bear (her new favorite show at the time) and a mermaid tail blanket with her name embroidered on it (made by Nanny!).  She had a great party in spite of the hiccup.

Whee!

She loves to swing!  Isn't her dress so cute!

Fun playing on the indoor playground.  She loves playgrounds so this was perfect for her!

Minnie's 'Bow-tique' Cake!

The next Monday was a long awaited day for me- she finally started preschool!  I had been so excited for her to start school and just absolutely love the school Ben has attended the past 2 years, and I knew Ally would love it too!  I was nervous about dropping her off- would she cry?  But she did great!  Ben stayed with her and she was very interested in all of the new people and toys, so she had no problem being left there.

Before, with proud big brother

At pick up!  She had a great day!

Ben was SO excited that Ally was at school with him.  All day that first day he would say, "Want to see my sister?" and then try to drag them over to see Ally.  The first few weeks both of their teachers would say that they would 'disappear' and they would find them in the other's classroom.  (Their school is one very large room divided into three classrooms by partial walls so there are no doors to the rooms.)  One teacher told me that one time she saw another kid push Ally, and Ben saw it and ran over and said, "You don't do that!"  Way to go big brother!

Ally has loved school.  She comes home dirty almost every day, and that's a win in my book.  She usually has smudges all over from the rubber mulch on the playground, and she will often have paint on her clothes.  She loves doing crafts with her teachers!  (Her teacher in her room also taught Ben last year, and she said she would have to BEG him to do crafts most of the time.  Ally wants to paint the paper, the table, the paper towels...!)  

The best part, though, is that Ally is loved by her peers.  Ben's best bud at school always asks where she is when he sees me come in with just Ben.  Her teacher says the other kids ask where she is on her days out too.  She told me "They don't ask about any of the other kids.  Just her."  I'm so glad she is doing so well, and that she is loved by so many.  I wanted her to go to school not just so that she could learn, but so that she could make friends, and she has far exceeded my expectations.

Then of course there was Easter.  This year Ally was old enough to participate in the festivities.  She had lots of fun during the Easter egg hunt at school.  And it was her first time getting to dye Easter eggs.  She was fascinated!

At the Easter egg hunt at school.  She had a great time finding eggs with Ben!

She kept stirring the dye and taking out the spoons.  And she kept picking up the finished eggs before they were dry.  The pink egg was her favorite!

Easter Sunday!  So cute!  Her hair is getting so long!

We've made it to another May!  May is Dandy-Walker awareness month and also when we go to Carter's Run to meet up with our Dandy family friends (this is the final Carter's Run, sadly, and will be held Sunday).  Hopefully it won't be too far into the future before I can blog about the experiences we will have this month (school is over in just a few weeks, so no more excuses!).  There are some exciting ones coming up, so stay tuned!  And thanks for your continued interest in our girl!  Wear some gray this month!

 

Graphics done by Ashley Nicole Ickes, another Dandy parent from Pennsylvania.